SCC Decision Every Sexual Abuse Lawyer Should Know About
Whether it is for negotiation, mediation, motion, pre-trial, trial or appeal purposes, there is one decision every plaintiff lawyer should have on hand: R. v. Friesen, 2020 SCC 9. Although it is a criminal case, this ground-breaking decision by the Supreme Court of Canada has had reverberations — and rightly so — in other areas of the law, including civil sexual abuse claims, family law disputes, child protection cases, and human rights complaints.
Shortly after R. v Friesen was released in 2020, I wrote a blog post in which I stated my belief that this decision’s importance extends far beyond the criminal sentencing context in which it arose — see Canada’s Highest Court Delivers Wake Up Call On Child Sexual Abuse. I wrote there, and have since made this argument in my files, that if one substitutes the word “damages” where the court talks about “sentences” or “sentencing,” the meaning remains as true and relevant to the civil sphere as the criminal one.
Four years later, I feel vindicated in my belief. I now see R. v. Friesen regularly cited in the reported civil abuse case law. It needs to stay this way. Mindsets still need to be changed, and there is no better ally for achieving this than our country’s highest court.
Before describing how civil courts are using R. v. Friesen, let me first summarize some highlights from this remarkable decision.
R. v. Friesen: Highlights
R. v. Friesen involved a young victim of sexual offences. The Supreme Court of Canada addressed the pervasiveness of child sexual abuse and the profound and widespread harms it causes, and it implored those involved in the justice system to treat this problem with more care and sensitivity.
The court opened its landmark 9-0 decision with these strong words: “Children are the future of our country and our communities. They are also some of the most vulnerable members of our society. They deserve to enjoy a childhood free of sexual violence.”
Through its decision, the court stated:
“[W]e send a strong message that sexual offences against children are violent crimes that wrongfully exploit children’s vulnerability and cause profound harm to children, families, and communities. Sentences for these crimes must increase. Courts must impose sentences that are proportional to the gravity of sexual offences against children and the degree of responsibility of the offender, as informed by Parliament’s sentencing initiatives and by society’s deepened understanding of the wrongfulness and harmfulness of sexual violence against children. Sentences must accurately reflect the wrongfulness of sexual violence against children and the far-reaching and ongoing harm it causes to children, families, and society at large.”
Here are some “takeaways” from R. v. Friesen that I, as a civil litigator practicing in this area for almost three decades, find instructive.
1. Prevalence of child sexual abuse:
The Supreme Court observed that police and the courts are seeing a mushrooming of cases involving sexual violence against children.
New technologies like the internet are enabling new forms of sexual violence against children, and providing perpetrators with new ways to access and control youth. These technologies are also making qualitative changes to these sexual offences; for example, the online distribution of images repeats the original violation by making its victim live with the knowledge that others may be accessing these images in the future.
2. Evolution of understanding:
Just as legislators have been recognizing, adapting, and trying to keep pace with developments in child sexual abuse, the Supreme Court observed that “[c]ourts too have been on a ‘learning curve’ to understand both the extent and the effects of sexual violence against children.” The law has had to and will continue to evolve to respond to its prevalence, and to the different manifestations of the wrong and harms it causes.
3. Characterization of the wrong as violence:
The wrongful nature of child sexual abuse stems from the fact it represents a simultaneous invasion of a child’s personal autonomy, a violation of the child’s bodily and sexual integrity, and an attack on the child’s dignity and equality.
“Violence is always inherent in the act of applying force of a sexual nature to a child,” the Supreme Court said. Whether or not there is additional physical violence and/or physical injuries that accompany such abuse, any physical contact of a sexual nature with a child is “a wrongful act of physical and psychological violence.”
4. Resulting individual and broader harms:
The attack on personal autonomy, bodily integrity, sexual integrity, dignity and equality that sexual abuse against a child represents means courts must consider the resulting psychological harm which will often be more pervasive and permanent than physical harm.
Sexual violence against children “inherently has the potential to cause several recognized forms of harm.” The Supreme Court noted that these are harms that manifest themselves:
1) During childhood, such as self-destructive behaviours, acting out, guilty feelings and shame, lack of trust, low self-esteem, inability to concentrate in school, running away from home, sleep disturbances and nightmares, anxiety, and depression; and
2) During the victim’s adult years, such as difficulty forming loving and caring relationships with others, being prone to engage in sexual violence against children themselves, and struggling with substance abuse, mental illness, PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder), eating disorders, suicidal ideation, self-harming behaviours, anxiety, depression, sleep disturbances, anger, and poor self-esteem.
Beyond the life-altering consequences that flow to targeted individuals, sexual violence against children has ripple effects, including harm to people who are close to these children and harm to relationships. There is also harm to the broader communities in which the targeted children live, as well as to society as a whole. Noted the Supreme Court:
“Some of these costs can be quantified, such as the social problems that sexual violence against children causes, the costs of state intervention, and the economic impact of medical costs, lost productivity, and treatment for pain and suffering … [C]hildren who are victims of sexual violence may be more likely to engage in sexual violence against children themselves when they reach adulthood … Sexual violence against children can thus fuel a cycle of sexual violence that results in the proliferation and normalization of the violence in a given community.”
5. Considerations for sentencing and damages awards:
The Supreme Court directed that courts must impose sentences — and I would add, damages awards — that are commensurate with the gravity of sexual offences against children.
It is not sufficient for courts to simply state that sexual offences against children are serious….courts must recognize and give effect to (1) the inherent wrongfulness of these offences; (2) the potential harm to children that flows from these offences; and (3) the actual harm that children suffer as a result of these offences.
6. Myths and stereotypes:
R. v. Friesen debunks various myths and stereotypes and warns about not falling prey to common or outdated misconceptions.
Lower courts must reject the common belief that there was no serious harm caused if there was no additional physical violence that caused physical injury. Further, the tendency to downplay the wrongfulness of child sexual abuse or its harm to the victim where the acts did not involve penetration, fellatio or cunnilingus, but instead involved touching or masturbation, has to stop. The notion that the latter kinds of sexual touching are “relatively benign” and thus inherently less harmful is, the Supreme Court said, “a myth that must be rejected.” Why? Because it does not provide any meaningful insight into how the actions were experienced by the targeted child.
“[C]ourts have at times spoken of the degree of physical interference as a type of ladder of physical acts with touching and masturbation at the least wrongful end of the scale, fellatio and cunnilingus in the mid-range, and penile penetration at the most wrongful end of the scale… This is an error — there is no type of hierarchy of physical acts for the purposes of determining the degree of physical interference. As the Court of Appeal for Ontario recognized in R. v. Stuckless, 2019 ONCA 504, physical acts such as digital penetration and fellatio can be just as serious a violation of the victim’s bodily integrity as penile penetration… Similarly, it is an error to assume that an assault that involves touching is inherently less physically intrusive than an assault that involves fellatio, cunnilingus, or penetration. For instance, depending on the circumstances of the case, touching that is both extensive and intrusive can be equally or even more physically intrusive than an act of fellatio, cunnilingus, or penetration.”
7. The importance of language:
The Supreme Court reminds us that words matter, including those used by lawyers and courts when they deal with child sexual abuse. The use of terms like “fondling” or “caressing” must stop. This is because they implicitly characterize the perpetrator’s conduct as erotic or affectionate, instead of inherently violent. Language like this is misleading and risks normalizing the very conduct that is being scrutinized and condemned.
8. No consent:
A child victim’s “participation” in sexual activity is not de facto consent and should never be treated as a mitigating factor. The court’s clear directive that such participation is not a legally relevant consideration at sentencing should apply equally to damages in civil sexual abuse cases. The Supreme Court appropriately acknowledged that “Adolescence can be a confusing and challenging time for young people as they grow and mature, navigate friendships and peer groups, and discover their sexuality.” It warned that a victim’s participation should not distract from the harm suffered, and moreover that the absence of additional overt violence, such as weapons, intimidation, and physical injury, does not mean the inherent violence of the sexual abuse of the child should be ignored or downplayed.
Examples of Civil Courts Citing R. v. Friesen
As civil courts across Canada are increasingly required to address child sexual abuse, they are now routinely relying on R. v. Friesen as an authority. Consider the following examples:
1. C.O. v. Williamson, 2020 ONSC 3874 – trial decision; teacher/student sexual abuse; R. v. Friesen cited at paragraph 169 in support of awards for general and aggravated damages in childhood sexual abuse cases increasing over time “as society and the courts have become increasingly aware of the very serious, long-lasting damage caused by such abuse.”
2. C.L.H. v. K.A.G., 2022 BCSC 994 – trial decision; brother sexually abused sister when both were minors; R. v. Friesen cited at paragraphs 299-300 for the inherent potential for harm posed by child sexual abuse.
3. A.B. v. C.D., 2022 BCSC 2145 – application decision; child sexual abuse case involving cross applications for publication bans anonymizing both plaintiff and defendant so they would not be publicly identified; R. v. Friesen cited at paragraph 12 to assist in weighing the interests as stake.
4. C.M.A. v. Blais, 2022 BCSC 214 – default judgment with trial assessment of damages; child sexual abuse by adult family friend; R. v. Friesen cited at paragraph 77 for the inherent potential for harm posed by child sexual abuse.
5. A.B. v. Main, 2023 NSSC 47 – trial decision; child sexual abuse by adult neighbour; R. v. Friesen cited at paragraphs 58-59 for the care that must be taken not to over-emphasize the physical acts that did or did not occur (i.e., whether touching was over or under clothing, or whether it involved penetration). Although the Supreme Court’s comments dealt with criminal sentencing, the trial judge found them “also apt in the civil context.”
6. S.M. v. McNutt, 2024 NSSC 17 – unopposed trial decision; child sexual abuse by hockey coach/teacher; R. v. Friesen cited at paragraph 25 for the proposition that there is not necessarily a correlation between physical severity of sexual abuse and harm to the victim.
7. H.N. v. School District No. 61 (Greater Victoria), 2024 BCSC 128 – trial decision; child sexual abuse by an adult tutor; R. v. Friesen cited at paragraph 2 in reference to evidence establishing that the plaintiff suffered the types of harms in childhood and extending into adulthood often associated with child sexual abuse; also cited at paragraph 216 in the context of considering whether to award punitive damages, with reference to the prioritization of denunciation and deterrence of sexual offences against children.
Contact ELIZABETH Today
Lerners understands you need someone to believe in you. Our consultations are free. Call today and let us help you and your family.
